Channel: Develop Attraction

Category: Howto & Style

Tags: attachment stylegirlfriend losing interestattractsecureget her backspacechris canwelldevelopattraction.comget ex girlfriend backanxiousgirlfriend pulling awaygirlfriend distantattractionattachmentgirlfriend doesn't respondno contactdevelop attractioninsecuregirlfriend not respondingget ex backget girlfrend backatomic attraction

Description: Get Atomic Attraction (Audiobook/Kindle/Paperback): developattraction.com/atomic-attraction People who are insecure, lonely, or have a personality type that makes them feel anxious often oppose the idea of space, preferring instead to live in a co-dependent relationship. For the vast majority of people, introducing space shouldn’t be a problem. Most people have a secure attachment style (approximately 59 percent of the population); 25 percent of people have an avoidant attachment style that requires fewer close connections and a reduced need for intimacy; and 11 percent of people have an anxious attachment style that lends itself to feelings of insecurity, anxiety, and the fear that their partner will one day abandon them. Regardless of a person’s attachment style, you must always allow space into your relationships, even if it feels like space is the last thing the relationship needs. In Esther Perel’s Mating in Captivity, eroticism and sexual attraction are said to exist in an ambiguous zone between anxiety and fascination.105 The amount of attraction (sexual or otherwise) we feel for another person is often in direct proportion to the amount of anxiety and uncertainty the other person stirs within us. The moment a woman feels smothered in a relationship is the moment she begins to feel a slew of emotions ranging from boredom, apathy, suffocation, and restlessness. On the other hand, the moment the all-important element of space is introduced, the woman is no longer assured of the man’s presence. It’s at this point that the woman begins to feel anxious and excited, becoming more and more fixated on the man the longer he’s away from her. If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, right from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, then I highly recommend you get a copy of my book Atomic Attraction. developattraction.com/atomic-attraction Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she's pulled away from you or left you. developattraction.com/get-her-back Please click the link below to make a donation to support my work via PayPal: paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted_button_id=FAD82HTR5UJ36 Click the link below if you need Emergency Email/Skype support: developattraction.com/emergency-help Click the link below to send me an email or visit my website (DevelopAttraction.com): developattraction.com Trust yourself and trust the process, Chris Canwell